Thoughts on community... and sharing

The move is complete (thankfully). We fit the six of us into our first communal house in, of all places, the bottoms of Columbus. The house is incredible. Our house sits on three lots and we have a few vegetables growing right now but the potential garden (farm) that I see every time I get home is something to really believe in. We have so much room in the yard to farm, and yesterday we finally started getting serious with our overgrown weeds that are consuming our yard. We put on our gardening boots, gloves, and music (which, in case you were wondering is Dead Prez and Mos Def), made some slammin iced tea with nectarines in it, cranked up the jams, gathered some friends, and got to work. The yard is definitely a place of peace, life, growth, death, Resurrection, and joy. The inside is even more wonderful... we have crazy colored walls, bikes hanging all over them, and a collection of not one but six peoples belongings. We have a lovely little chapel in the basement with stone walls and a stone bench all the way around it. We have some Jesus and Mother Mary candles in front of this delicate little confessional alter next to our wailing wall, a place of solitude and power.

I feel as though there is a large misunderstanding about the choice of neighborhood, or the choice of living in community… but here is one small example of why it makes sense to me…

Sunday night, Kelly and I took our free bread we get from street church, hopped on our bikes and went to the T.G.'s house which is about seven blocks, we chatted with them, scored some sweet corn growing in their garden, and were on our way. Then we went up to the Kauffman's house, dropped off our bread to them, peeped in on the chickens, and went home with our corn to cook dinner with our 4 other housemates. We made a delicious stuffed zucchini, all with vegetables that are growing in season, and in our gardens, sat around the table and got to share our meal with others living in the community, Heather, Rachel, and Jon. Then the boys took off for some "guys time", and us girls stuck around and watched some slam poetry that was inspiring, as usual. Sharing in this manner helps me to believe that we could face anything in this world and get through it together by sharing what we have and depending on each other. What beauty in this community.

Then on Wednesday night, Kelly and I were out near our house getting some dinner when we were approached by a younger guy asking for a ride if we were heading west. The furthest west we were going was only about three blocks, but decided to talk to the kid anyways. He was traveling from Virginia to Utah to visit his family and decided to hitchhike the entire way. He had made it this far and got dropped off in the bottoms. He was looking to camp in the area and we strongly advised him not to. He was exhausted, needed a shower, and somewhere comfortable to sleep. After some discussion with the others in the house, the boys went back to get him and bring him in for the night. Paul, the traveler, was able to stay with us, shower, and eat with us because this is something we believe in. We believe in hospitality even if it inconveniences us. We believe in taking care of people and the freedom to do so because we have shared resources and shared space which really does make things safer. We take good care of each other so we can then take care of others. It is beautiful how these situations can arise simply from where you plant yourself.

It is nice having people coming in and out all the time, it is nice having visitors and people to feed and people to share meals with, it is nice to show people around who have heard about what is going on and are interested in community and taking care of their neighbors, it is nice having new neighbors knock on our door and ask if they can cut our grass to make some money when they don't have other forms of work, it is nice waking up to 5 other people and being able to laugh and enjoy each others company in the morning. Much to learn, much to experience, and so very much to do.

Back to the garden with our iced tea and dead prez, and in his words...

"Ain't nobody in the hood got hope in this fucked up system and that's why we don't vote"

Odd note to end on, I realize, but that lyric has been on my mind.

Hope.